The Better To See You With ~ Page 143

February 2, 2020 allison 1 Comment

What sort of arrangement *do* they have?

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Honestly, I think he needs to let go of Red. I won’t judge people in polyamorous relationships, but from what I get from this guy, in his heart, that’s not the kind of relationship he wanted and he’s hurting himself by going along with something he doesn’t really want. Sometimes, it doesn’t matter how badly you want someone. If your goals clash too hard, the healthiest thing to do is part ways.

I say this from experience. I was in this situation for the first guy I ever truly fell in love with. Not a crush. I outright loved him, but I saw that what he wanted was just too radically different from what I wanted in life, so I never confessed my feelings and just stayed friends. We eventually parted ways, but we were both happier for it and we each found our better matches in the long run.